Squirting is a common phenomenon in females, and almost all women experience squirting. However, women also learn about their vaginas through squirting. We have listed five odd things we learned that happens to the vagina when female squirts.
Before I tried to learn how to squirt, I didn't know anything about my clitoris. I think I might have come across the word in some magazine, but I never really paid that much attention.
With all of that said, I didn't even know where the clitoris was or what it does. Then, as I tried to learn how to squirt, I studied the anatomy of the female sexual organ and I finally figured out where my clitoris is.
Turns out, the clitoris is easily visible from where my eyes are located. The clitoris is that nut-shaped organ that sits at the opening of my vagina. I learned that the clitoris is way more sensitive than any penis could ever hope to be.
I learned that when I stimulate my clitoris well, I could orgasm and squirt within 5 to 6 minutes. It felt really great.
The Cleveland Clinic provides an insightful explanation for this, attributing it to the fact that the glans alone is equipped with approximately 8,000 nerve endings. Notably, the clitoris boasts a higher density of nerve endings than any other region within the vulva. These interconnected nerves collaborate to elicit a diverse spectrum of pleasurable sensations, contingent upon the method of clitoral stimulation and the degree of sexual arousal achieved.
When studying ways to make myself squirt, I learned about Kegel's exercises.
Sure, I had heard of it as an exercise recommended for pregnant women, but I never thought of its importance for just about anybody who wishes to do better sexually.
Turns out, Kegel's exercises are a series of exercises for the strengthening of the pelvic floor muscles. The PVC muscles are responsible for the flow and blockage of our urination and defecation.
Sexually speaking, when the PVC muscles are strong, we can also find it easier to orgasm and squirt. So I learned to do Kegel's exercises to make my PVC muscles stronger.
I found out I can hold back my urge to pee better now that my PVC muscles are stronger. I also learnt that the vagina feels tighter when the PVC muscles are strong, healthy and in place.
As reported by Time Magazine, specific women have noted that incorporating Kegel exercises into their routines enhances their sexual encounters. This positive effect could be linked to the notion that stronger pelvic muscles potentially enable smoother contractions during orgasms, and the exercises additionally contribute to enhanced blood circulation within the pelvic area.
Before I learned how to squirt, I didn’t think a lot about my female sexuality. Granted, I grew up in an era that was hostile to any mention of female sexuality.
Girls weren’t free to talk about even menstruation in front of boys. Female sexuality was always a mystery because the people back then made any mention of it sound like a taboo thing.
It was such a mistake to have bought into that whole crap. Female sexuality is amazing and I honour everything that it has done for mankind.
The vagina is strong and amazing for being able to take in so much pounding (yeah, you know what that means!) and for its ability to bring a human being into this world.
I also learned that females are just as sexual as males. Biologically, we might even be hornier than men in general. We just have higher respect.
Of course, learning how to squirt will require us to masturbate as part of understanding our anatomy. You can’t just try to do it with a partner because it might just drag on and on and you won’t even be able to find what you’re looking for.
But when masturbating on your own, you can easily control your pace and learn the many ways you get turned on, as well as off. As I learn to be more comfortable with masturbating, I also learn to be more comfortable in my own body.
You know, to feel okay, comfy and sexy in my own skin. My body is not wrong; my vagina is not bad or dirty; my female sexuality is normal and should be honoured.
I realised my body—and my vagina—has done so much for me. And for that, I am grateful.
Although I was born with a vagina, due to my upbringing in that era, I always failed to notice it. The only time we can notice the existence of the vagina is when we clean ourselves.
Other times, it's like we must forget we have the vagina. It was somewhat like that. We couldn't even mention the word vagina without feeling like we'd said a bad word. I'm fighting that now.
In a survey conducted by Health Shot in 2016, it was revealed that 65 percent of young women faced difficulties in saying the word 'vagina', opting for alternative terms such as 'women's bits'. But why does a term like 'vagina', which truly represents strength, trigger feelings of embarrassment? This reaction is actually contrary to its intended impact!
After reading some ways to squirt and learning to be comfortable with my sexuality, I am now fighting the shame to say the word vagina. It is just a part of my body like my fingers and eyes.
So, I think the vagina is so precious and must be treated with care. It should also be honoured by not using any other euphemisms to allude to it. I am done hiding the fact I have a vagina.
All in all, not every woman can experience a good orgasm and squirt if they do not have enough knowledge or experience. The odd things above can help you understand what I learned about my vagina when I learned to squirt.
This is what happens when you take Viagra. Just like Viagra works in men by relaxing genital muscles to allow for increased and easy flow of blood in the penis, some scientist also believes that it promotes similar physiological process in women.
Scientists theorize that Viagra enhances blood flow to the female genitals resulting in easy arousal, lubrication, and enhanced sensation. Such characteristics make it easy for a woman to achieve orgasms leading to a better sexual experience.
The fact that you are contemplating taking Viagra then it is a sign you might be suffering from female sexual dysfunction, FSD. However, some women take the drug out of curiosity. Female sexual dysfunction FSD is not an illness but rather a condition that affects several women. And taking Viagra addresses some of the problems caused by FSD.
How Viagra Works in Women
As mentioned above, Viagra was only licensed to treat erectile dysfunction in men. However, the drug’s effectiveness over the years increased curiosity in women. This led to some scientific research to establish whether the drug can be used to treat FSD. Some scientist believes that the drug can be used in women to treat common sexual disorder conditions, while others claim that the drug does not affect women sexually.
While the drug may not increase sexual desire in women, it enhances the mechanism that makes it easy for a woman to have an orgasm. Common issues that affect women with low libido include vaginal dryness, reduced sensitivity, especially in the genital areas and other erogenous spots as well as lack of sexual excitement. Viagra makes sex pleasurable for women with the above conditions by increasing blood flow to the genitals.
Common Side Effects of Viagra in Women
There are no specific side effects of Viagra in women, but some of them are only regarded as allergic reactions and may include;
Women’s sexuality does not have the same progress as men’s sex issues. The reason for this may be man’s orgasm has been the center of appropriation and the second point is that the culture and tradition emphasize greatly on men’s ability. Around 46% of women in America alone have little or no sexual satisfaction in their bedroom.
We all know that at some point of time sexual desire gets reduced or impaired. The reasons for this low female libido can be both physical and psychological. A group of psychological factors hampers the female libido. They are:
• Depression
• Fatigue
• Suffered from sexual abuse in childhood
• Any type of sexual assault or trauma from past relationships
The physical factors that result in low female libido are
• Pregnancies and Childbirth
• Menopause
• Endocrine problems
• The decrease in sex hormones
• Being overweight
Why during pregnancies and childbirth women experiences low female libido?
Yohimbe is actually an Alkaloid which is popularly considered as a “Natural Viagra.” Yohimbine is the name of an evergreen tree that is found in parts of Central and West Africa. It is actually a bark of Yohimbe which contains a chemical called Yohimbine – it acts as an active compound of the bark and is used to formulate medicine. Yohimbine Hydrochloride (Aphrodyne, Yocon) is a simpler form of Yohimbine that is often prescribed as a drug in the US.
It is used as an oral supplement to arouse sexual excitement within females, especially, if they are facing any sexual problems caused by anti-depressants.
The physiology behind its function is its basic key component namely, Yohimbine, which can increase blood flow and stimulate nerve impulses to the vagina. It also serves a counteracting function to reduce any sexual side effects of certain medications and hence increases the activity of central noradrenergic neurons in the body.
Why endocrine problems lead to low female libido?
It is a very well known fact that testosterone hormone plays an important part in the libido of both men and women. Testosterone in the male is produced in the testes, while testosterone hormone in women is produced in the ovaries or the adrenal glands. The adrenal glands are found just above the kidneys. Adrenal glands control sexual maturity. Any problem in these glands results in low female libido.
Adrenal glands get destroyed because of some form of cancer or from infections. Some type of fungal infection blocks the production of testosterone hormones in women. Endocrine problems should be categorically treated by a doctor.
What happens during menopause that leads to low female libido?
Again the role of testosterone hormone comes into account. With the onset of natural or surgical menopause the testosterone hormone level in women drops. When this particular hormone level drops it triggers up to a dip in sexual drive, sensation in clitoris decreases, orgasm is not achieved, pubic hairs decreases. All these problems lead to low female libido.
Vaginal dryness is another symptom that reduces the desire for sex. Vaginal dryness occurs with the onset of menopause.
Along with these physical factors, the psychological factor of sexual abuse in childhood results in low female libido. Women those who are sexually assaulted get afraid of sex. This trauma hampers their libido. For these types of women, a lot of love and affection is required from the partner to regain the confidence levels thus enhance the libido. If possible counseling can be the best to enhance low female libido in women who are sexually abused.
Depression is a mode killer mental disorder; it disrupts even the normal routine work. It also kills the libido both in male and female partners. Dealing with depression needs determination, exercises, and some sort of medication as well. Exercises are good for your health and boost libido.
The medication part of dealing with depression mostly has the opposite impact on libido. These medicines raise the amount of serotonin, a hormone that promotes the feel-good factor of the brain. Mostly used antidepressants including the citalopram, fluoxetine, and sertraline impact the male libido. Here a trickier question arises, what to choose, antidepressant medicines or depression? As both negatively affect the libido, we need to find out a better replacement for these medications.
There is good news in this regard, some antidepressant medications like bupropion or vilazodone have no negative impacts on male libido. You can talk with your doctor to replace your current antidepressants with these medicines that are free from any negative side-effects.