While society may frown upon older women dating younger men, there are many benefits to this type of relationship, especially when it comes to sexual experiences. In this post, we will discuss five reasons why sex with a younger man can be better than with an older partner.

1. Balanced power dynamic

There is this dichotomy within the sexual relationship of men and women who belong to the same age group: power imbalance.

A small-scale study tried to understand what older women like about having sex with younger men, and it turns out that the return of balance in the power dynamic is the most interesting.

Younger men have the endurance, physical ability, as well as wild libido that craves intense, exciting sex; but at the same time, younger women are not up to that because they tend to be reserved.

Meanwhile, older women know what they want, are exciting in bed and can be quite wild, but older men dislike that about their courage; older men like to feel they are in charge of women's sexual satisfaction.

As a result of that, older women find that their younger sexual partners tend to respect and appreciate their libido more than their average older men.

2. Younger men are more pleasing to the eye

Seriously, who doesn’t like seeing toned abs and glowing skin? Younger men still have that. Older men somehow lost touch with reality and at some point, they began to think it is acceptable to be fat and hairy.

There are plenty of older men out there who don’t appreciate older women being, well, older. So, you can think the same, too. Younger men are beautiful, strong, and if they are polite.

Respectful, that’s a plus. On top of that, you would appreciate the fact that they still have so much sex drive, but more importantly, the desire to learn. This means they can be guided and told to do what they like.

You know how older men get offended when a woman tries to take charge in the bedroom. That's not fun at all. If you're the type that likes to lead, younger men are better.

According to Paired Life blog, older women might find themselves attracted to younger men due to the latter's peak physical condition, including attributes like a full head of hair, strong muscles, and higher sexual stamina. As a result, some women may perceive that they are making a compromise when dating men their own age, who may appear at least a decade older than the younger counterparts they find appealing.

3. Generally speaking, they adore you

For a lot of older women, being in a sexual relationship with younger men can be emotionally satisfying just for the fact they seem to adore these more experienced women.

When it comes to self-esteem, this is the game. There is something very hypnotic about older women who are not shy to say what they want. Younger men respect that and find that enthralling.

On top of that, older women have a ton more life experiences than younger ones, and some younger men like to learn from their experiences.

This thing may not be exactly the same for every such couple, but this does seem to be a common theme.

Older women feel appreciated and wanted by younger men—something they hardly ever see in their relations with men in their own age group or older.

All women appreciate men who show them a genuine appreciation for their character.

4. No commitment, just sex

Okay, this one might be a reason why sex with younger men is better for a handful of women. See, not all women want serious commitment in a sexual relationship.

There are many reasons for that, but some really powerful women who are already settled in their careers may not actually be seeking a romantic companion.

They just want the sex; and heck, sex with a younger man is definitely better in so many regards. And better yet, some younger men may also see cougars just as sexual objects.

That sounds harsh, but that is the reality for some people who are in this type of sexual relationship. Of course, older women who do not wish to be seen strictly sexually may not be happy with this dynamic.

According to the Bonology blog, when dating a younger man, women might experience a sense of liberation as they don't have to conform to traditional social norms, face financial obligations, or deal with any emotional attachments or strings attached. This newfound freedom allows for exploring various aspects and possibilities in relationships, similar to the different shades of grey. Matters that she might have been hesitant or unable to discuss with her husband can now become more likely and achievable within this context of dating a younger partner.

Societal norms and taboos are unfortunately still in place. Older women who do not wish to be associated with being cougars are still trying to figure out their place in the world.

5. Lesser frequency of dealing with erectile dysfunction

It is definitely not fun when you are in bed with a man, ready to get steamy, and suddenly, erectile dysfunction happens.

Or at least, the erection is soft and weak. Hmph… sometimes, the bigger problem is not even your dissatisfaction with the man's erection.

Sometimes, the awkward thing about this situation is how the woman would feel bad for the man, then everything gets awkward, and the woman would try to console the man's fragile masculinity.

This is never fun! Women don't want to feel like a mother during such a time. Sex with a younger man means less of an experience of having to deal with that kind of embarrassment (from the man’s end) and that also means smooth sailing.

According to Health Match, Erectile Dysfunction (ED) is commonly associated with aging, meaning that the older a man is, the more likely he is to experience some form of it. Men in their 20s generally have a low risk of developing ED due to their young age. However, as age advances, the prevalence of ED increases significantly. The study showed that around 40% of men are affected by ED at the age of 40, and this percentage rises to nearly 70% at the age of 70.

Many older women find that sex with a younger man includes less hassle and overall, just more fun, adventure and orgasm. Nothing beats that simplicity!

To summarize everything, younger men can have a lot better experience in sex than older men. Hopefully, the five reasons above can help older men understand but worry no more as there is hope for everyone.

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Low Female Libido Can Be Avoided With Self Awareness And Willingness To Learn

Introduction

The word libido means sexual desire or sex drive. The problem of low libido is found in both female and male but it happens more in the case of women. Low female libido causes less desire for sex. The woman with higher libido always performs a great sex act.

Now in the recent survey, it has been found out that mostly for the women of age ranging from 18 to 59 the most common problem is a low desire for sex, which is caused because of having low libido.

Reasons for low libido caused by female

• Monthly periods can also be a reason for low libido.
• This may also occur because of changes in hormones like because of pregnancy
• Breastfeeding can also be a reason for low female libido.
• Many women lose their interest in sex after they gave birth to a baby, as they get too exhausted to have sex.
• Low libido can also cause because of excessive consumption of alcohol or taking illegal drugs.
• Deficiency of iron in women can also cause low libido.
• In any sexual act, emotion plays a very vital and crucial role. When any women or lady has emotionally deprived then it causes low sexual desires.
• Low libido can also cause because of overwork, anxiety, and stress.
• Any kind of abnormalities in hormone can be a reason for low libido.
• Using drugs in order to reduce tension or anxiety can be a reason for low sexual desire, reducing the libido.
• Due to rape or any other poor sexual treatment can be a reason for the decrease in libido
• It may also happen that as because the life partner is having low libido, it may turn to you and you will lose interest in sex.

Low female libido varies from person to person and age to age.

Due to inadequate sexual knowledge and sexual performance, women always tend to lose interest in sexual performance and this leads to low sexual desire and results in low libido. Women always find all kind of faults in their bodies and they have been always brought up to care less about their feelings.

The main reason for low libido caused in the female is because of an unhealthy attitude towards sex and guilt. There are many cases where a woman ends a relation, even with their perfect match, when they sexually feel incompetent as because her libido drops.

In general, when a woman becomes bored, unappealing or disinterested in their sexual relationship, it’s because they go through a low libido. To increase low female libido they start another new relationship, but this causes a temporary solution for a permanent cause.

Conclusion

In order to solve the low libido problem in the female, it takes only things. One is to the eagerness to learn and the other is self-awareness. So as to end the problem of low female libido one must have a positive attitude towards sex.