Everybody has got a set of expectations and fantasies about sex. But of course, men and women both have different things they find pleasure in and here we have compiled for you a list of women’s top 5 sexual fantasies.

1. Being the dominant one in a sexual relation

Most of the time, women play the role of someone submissive in a sexual relationship. Heck, we are even accustomed to this notion already.

Perhaps it is culture; perhaps it is sheer oppression; but whatever the case may be, some women fantasise about being the one with a dominant role in sex.

Of course, many women are happy to play a submissive role most of the time (after all, most women find strong-willed men very attractive) but even those women fantasise about this from time to time.

The flip of the power balance is thrilling to think about and usually, women can fantasise about this when thinking about a man who appears docile.

Well, fantasies are just fantasies and not all women actually want to dominate men overall. Their fantasies just really depend on who they are fantasising about. But asking about it may not hurt!

2. Having sex with two men

This fantasy is probably kept secret by women for the most part. But thanks to the exposure of porn (and even some movies) even women can fantasise about being in the middle of two men.

The idea of being so desirable and wanted by more than one man is very sexy and self-affirming, so some women may fantasise about this from time to time.

As survey published by Men's Health, revealed that 87% of participants admitted to fantasizing about scenarios like threesomes, group sex, and gangbangs. Interestingly, women were found to commonly fantasize about having sex with two men. The idea of being simultaneously desirable to multiple partners at once can be incredibly thrilling and exciting for many individuals.

The notion of taboo in an unfaithful relationship can also make the fantasy all the more enthralling. Also, the fact that they get to be pleased doubly good whilst not having to do too much to please the two men may make them feel powerful as well.

Of course, this is just a fantasy and doesn’t necessarily hint at unfaithfulness in a romantic relationship. Sometimes people just want to imagine being bad because in real life they are really decent people.

3. Being submissive and forced into sex

On the other end of women’s sexual fantasies lies submission. Some women like to fantasise about having more power, but even those women may even fantasise about being totally helpless and forced into a sexual relationship.

Again, this is all just fantasy and playing out roles in one’s head is pretty safe and sexy. This doesn’t actually mean that women secretly want to be raped as this type of fantasy is often called ‘rape fantasy’.

The bottom line of this submission is just psychological play in which strong-willed women just want to meet someone stronger than them who can control them into submission.

As per the research reported by Health Place, rough sex is characterized by aggressive, animalistic, and potentially violent sexual acts. It is often portrayed as more passionate than other forms of sex, but it can also be linked to unhealthy and abusive behavior. However, it's important to note that in some cases, rough sex may be a consensual fantasy when both partners are attracted to each other.

The idea that a really attractive man can make a woman succumb to his will is just fun and sexy in the woman’s mind, and they do enjoy this from time to time.

The key takeaway is that this fantasy is only sexy when involving a man the woman is attracted to.

4. Sex with their favourite hot celebrity

A common sexual fantasy for both men and women is imagining having sex with a really hot celeb. Everybody does this and there is no harm in this; after all, it is just fantasy and for the most part, it is never going to happen.

Meanwhile, fantasising about having sex with a favourite celeb can also increase sexual satisfaction. At the same time, the fantasy can make women even more desiring to have sex with their official partners.

So, it really would not hurt. Some celebs that we know of are indeed a rare breed of human beings who seem to have it all: great body, charisma, magnetic sex appeal, and they simply know how to portray a sexy character doing hot stuff.

There is no harm in learning a thing or two from our favourite celebs as well as that may just get us to become more creative in the bedroom.

5. Sex with their boss at the workplace

Yes, we think this is pretty common as well. The workplace tends to be seen as a professional space where everyone is expected to be decent and keep to doing the right things.

For that reason, sex at the workplace with a colleague or a boss becomes really racy in the minds of many people. The sexual tension between co-workers can also ignite such fantasies that may or may not become reality.

Sometimes, even issues with someone at the workplace can induce sexual fantasies because women feel like they want to overpower the person who causes them emotional turmoil.

According to the survey published in Women's Health, an intriguing finding indicates that four out of five women admit to daydreaming about having sex with a colleague. The survey brings attention to the fact that some women experience such erotic dreams with surprising frequency, even as often as every hour.

With that said, some women actually fantasise about having sex with their boss. This can happen whether or not they actually like the boss; it’s a pretty case by case scenario, too.

But this particular sexual fantasy is also quite common amongst professionals and working women.

To tie it all together, people should not be embarrassed to talk about sexual fantasies as they must talk about them openly to raise awareness. Talking about their sexual fantasies can help women feel empowered and satisfied.

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Try To Balance Psychological And Emotional Factors For A Good Relationship

Sex drive between men and women differ by means of physical and emotional aspects. Learning about different facets of sex will help you to know better about your man or woman well. Try to balance both psychological and emotional sides during the sexual act. Men have a stronger sex drive and they show it visually than verbally. Women are opposite to them and it is difficult to pin them down.

When it comes to the spark of the sexual desire women has a more emotional connection than men. The physical aspects are always referred to the lips, erect nipples and curves of the woman's body. Men get attracted by these features, which pull them into the bed. Sex is an emotional experience and includes the feelings of a person such as his/her confidence, self-esteem, dominance, and other sexual desires. It also depends on what type of relationship you are looking for whether serious or one-night stand.

What do men and women think about sex?

Men prefer spontaneous sexual arousal and varied fantasies and they think about sex fantasies at least once a day. This urge is less in women when compared to men. Men also tend to read sexy books and movies because they are more often aroused by visuals. The emotional and psychological factor is needed to enhance the play.

The emotional connection is found more in women. If they want to marry a man, they must feel the comfort and closeness in his arms. Women won’t stay close to a man unless she has some feeling towards him. It is often said that their sexual drives are influenced by both cultural and social factors. Don’t think girls are less sensitive, when they get close to you they are hornier than you.

The actions of a woman are more rewarding and intense when she really cares about the man. Physical and emotional values play an equal part for her.

Concentrate more on emotional feeling

The girls portray the art of making love which is more tender, romantic, considerate and respectful. They never think it as a one-night stand act. Pay attention to your emotions while you are in bed with your sweetheart. It is based on the individual’s perspective whether they think it as love or lust. The mind of a person keeps changing based on the situation, so it is better to interpret things properly to have a serious relationship with him or her.

Being together

Woman’s attitude towards sexual satisfaction and experiencing an orgasm may be different from a man. If you are really interested in her, your physical or emotional aspect won’t stop you from it. Just make sex as a simple thing and more straightforward. Both of you must try to seek love, intimacy, and connection if you want a serious relationship with your partner.

You must recognize both aspects such as emotional and physical, which increases the intimacy level of man and woman. Try to understand the affectionate feeling of the girl you love. Your sex life should not be affected due to the dominance of one partner. Surprise your beloved in the bed with different fanfare and sex techniques.