Food and sex are two of life’s greatest pleasures; putting the two together can be unforgettable, very exciting. That said, there are some ways people use food during sex that are dangerous, unhygienic, or just flat-out unappealing. Herein, we discuss 5 ways people use food during sex that you never should.
1. Using food as a lubricant
While the idea of using whipped cream or chocolate syrup as a lubricant might seem tantalizing, this practice can pose significant health risks. The sugar content in these food items can disrupt the pH balance of the vagina, leading to yeast infections (Mayo Clinic, 2020). Furthermore, the sticky texture of these substances can cause discomfort during intercourse and even lead to painful abrasions or micro-tears in the delicate tissues of the genital area.
Instead of resorting to food items as lubricants, it is recommended to use water-based or silicone-based lubricants specifically designed for sexual use. These products are formulated to reduce friction and enhance pleasure without causing harm to the body (American Sexual Health Association, 2018).
2. Inserting food into the vagina or anus
Another potentially dangerous practice involves inserting food items into the vagina or anus. The vagina and anus have their own self-cleaning mechanisms, and inserting foreign objects can disrupt this balance, leading to infections and potential damage to the delicate tissues (American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, 2021).
Additionally, certain foods, such as fruits or vegetables, can break easily and leave behind small pieces that can cause irritation or even become lodged in the body. This can result in painful and potentially dangerous situations that may require medical attention (Mayo Clinic, 2020).
3. Using food as a prop for oral sex
Some people may use food items such as plastic wrap or a fruit peel as a makeshift condom during intercourse. This is an extremely unsafe practice that can lead to serious consequences. Food items are not designed for this purpose and can easily break, leading to the risk of unwanted pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections (STIs). It is crucial to always use proper protection such as condoms or dental dams during sexual activities.
While some food items may seem like a convenient option for those who do not have access to traditional protection, the risks associated with using them far outweigh any potential benefits. Plastic wrap, for example, may seem like a viable alternative to condoms, but it can tear easily and does not provide adequate protection against STIs. Similarly, fruit peels offer no protection against STIs or pregnancy and can cause irritation or infection.
4. Using food as a substitute for safe sex practices
Food can be a fun and playful addition to oral sex, but it is important to exercise caution. Using a banana or cucumber as a “penis” during fellatio can cause choking or gagging if a piece breaks off. Similarly, using a piece of fruit or candy as a “clitoris” during cunnilingus can lead to choking or accidentally getting stuck in the throat. It is best to stick to using food as a visual or sensory prop rather than incorporating it directly into the act.
If food is used as a prop during oral sex, it is important to consider any potential allergies or sensitivities that either partner may have. For example, using a food item that one partner is allergic to could lead to a medical emergency. Additionally, cleaning the genitals thoroughly after using food as a prop is essential to avoid infection or irritation.
5. Using food without consent
Another important consideration when incorporating food into sex is to always get consent from your partner. Some people may have allergies or sensitivities to certain foods, or they may simply not be comfortable with using food during sex. It is essential to have a conversation about boundaries and preferences beforehand to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for both partners.
It is also important to note that using food without consent can be considered a form of sexual assault. This can include acts such as rubbing food on a partner’s body without their permission, or force-feeding a partner food during sex. These actions can be traumatic and can make a partner feel violated, so it is crucial to always practice consent and respect your partner’s boundaries.
While food may be added to add some fun element or excitement in sexual activities, it must be done with responsibility. Food is never intended for use as lubrication, to be inserted into a vagina or anus, as a substitute for safe sex practices, or without mutual consent. Instead, keep the idea of visual/sensory stimulation associated with food, and then always put your safety and comfort and that of your partner first.
