Understanding what is happening during sex can help normalize the experience, especially when it comes to the vagina. Here are five things that might seem weird, but are perfectly normal for your vagina to do during sex.
- The vagina expands and becomes ‘loose’
If you have ever heard a guy complain about his partner’s vagina feeling too loose, tell them he is stupid because he doesn’t know how good a job he is doing.
The vaginal walls can naturally expand to accommodate different sizes of the penis when the vagina is sexually stimulated. When the vagina is stimulated, whether by a penis, a finger, or a sex toy, the vagina swells up and expands in size.
This is because you feel aroused but also relaxed, so your vagina is ready to welcome a penis to pleasure it.
According to Este Medical Group, the vaginal walls consist of muscular tissue and multiple layers containing abundant elastic fibers. This inherent elasticity enables the vagina to stretch and contract during sexual activity and childbirth. Remarkably, even following intense sexual intercourse or childbirth, the vagina has the capacity to naturally return to its original shape over time.
Most of the time, a woman will not be able to feel that her vagina has expanded in size, but her male partner will be able to tell.
It is a good sign of relaxation, pleasure, enjoyment, and safety when you feel that your vagina has expanded in size during sex. It’s not weird at all.
- Queefing or farting from the vagina may happen
Some women may have heard about queefing. This is that embarrassing thing that happens when you think your vagina has farted during sex.
Well, many people feel embarrassed when a queef happens during sex, but luckily, this thing doesn’t have a smell or anything, so you can be glad about that.
The reason queefing will never smell is that a queef is literally just air coming out of your vagina. A fart, however, carries gas from the rear. So, a queef is not necessarily a fart.
According to the Cleveland Clinic, vaginal farting occurs when trapped air within the vagina is released. This is an involuntary physiological process over which you have no control. The expelled air creates a sound resembling that of flatulence or passing gas from the rectum. Although it might lead to moments of embarrassment, vaginal farting is a widespread occurrence and generally poses no harm.
It sometimes happens when you are exercising, too, actually. During sex, a queef may happen because of air being pushed inside the vagina when anything enters it.
Also, you know your vagina becomes larger in size when you’re sexually aroused and this creates more room for air inside. During a good shag and your muscles are relaxed, a queef may just pop.
- Your vagina feels thicker
Your vagina does not actually get thicker as in garnering more skin. The reason your vagina feels thick and stronger during sex is that there is more blood in your erogenous areas.
When you are sexually aroused, the blood supply will be sent from the heart to the pelvic area. Your vagina—and all of its parts like the labia, clitoris and vulva—gets plenty of blood supply that fills in every cell that exists there.
Thus, your intimate area gets swollen and expands in size. The presence of rapid blood flow there also makes the vagina feel very strong and sensitive.
This is a good sign that you are well aroused and if you continue to get stimulated, sooner than later the vagina will start to produce its own natural lubrication.
This whole mechanism is totally normal as it is what’s required to make sex more comfortable.
- You feel the strong urge to pee
During sex, you imagine that you should be able to go on without pause until you reach the climax. But at certain times, you feel this strong urge to pee right in the middle of the act.
This is actually very common and is caused by an overactive pelvic floor. The muscles on the pelvic floor become super easily triggered when you are sexually aroused.
After a few good minutes of shagging, you may start to feel like you can’t hold back your urge to pee, and this is not a failure on your end.
The urge arises because the pelvic floor muscles are now shivering their timber, so to speak. So you see, the PVC muscles are responsible for keeping close and open the pathway to urination.
So this makes sense. If this happens multiple times and you don’t like getting interrupted, just make sure you pee before sex begins.
- Your clitoris actually gets a boner
Yeah, strange to hear that the clitoris gets a ‘boner’; isn’t that just a guy’s thing? Nope. The clitoris on the female body is amazingly similar to the penis on the male body.
When a woman is sexually aroused, her clitoris actually experiences an erection, too. The small, nut-shaped organ that sits on top of the vaginal opening gets tensed up, points a little upwards, and becomes extra sensitive to touch and stimulation.
The National Center for Biotechnology Information clarifies that the clitoris’s corpora cavernosa and the vaginal vestibule’s corpora cavernosa are comprised of tissue resembling a sponge in texture. As sexual arousal occurs, these areas experience an accumulation of blood, leading to the corpora cavernosa becoming engorged and rigid. This process also results in the swelling and stiffening of both the head and shaft of the clitoris.
However, since the clit is so small, it is hard to actually see this happening with just your glance. Anyway, who pays attention to the ‘boner’ of the clit when there’s a penis around? Right?
But that does happen nevertheless and you would be happy to know the clit has twice the nerve endings of the penis. Stimulate the clit enough times and orgasm will be yours to have, rather quickly, too.
In conclusion, we discussed several weird yet normal things that the vagina does during sex. We hope the five things we provided can help you understand that it is completely normal and you are not alone if your vagina acts funny during sex.
10 ‘weird’ Things About Your Vagina That Are Totally Normal
The vagina is a complex and fascinating part of the female anatomy. It is often shrouded in mystery and taboo, leaving many women feeling self-conscious or embarrassed about their own bodies. However, the truth is that there are many ‘weird’ things about the vagina that are actually completely normal. In this paper, we will explore 10 of these ‘weird’ things, and debunk the myths and misconceptions surrounding them.
1. Discharge
One of the most common and sometimes alarming things about the vagina is discharge. Many women are worried when they notice a white or clear fluid coming from their vagina, thinking it is a sign of an infection or something abnormal. However, vaginal discharge is completely normal and is the way the vagina cleanses itself. The amount and consistency of discharge can vary throughout the menstrual cycle and is affected by factors such as hormones, sexual arousal, and hygiene.
2. Labia asymmetry
Many women are self-conscious about the appearance of their labia, the folds of skin that surround the vaginal opening. However, it is completely normal for the labia to be asymmetrical, meaning one side may be larger or longer than the other. This is due to genetics and has no impact on vaginal health or function.
3. Different colors
The color of the vagina can vary from woman to woman and even within the same woman. It can range from pink to brown to purplish, and this is all completely normal. Factors such as hormonal changes, blood flow, and genetics can all affect the color of the vagina.
4. Stretching and elasticity
The vagina is an incredibly elastic organ, designed to stretch and accommodate different objects such as a penis, tampon, or baby during childbirth. This means that it can often feel looser or tighter depending on the situation. It is also normal for the vagina to stretch and change shape over time, especially after childbirth or with age.
5. Smell
Many women are concerned about the smell of their vagina, thinking that it should be completely odorless. However, it is normal for the vagina to have a slight odor, and the smell can change depending on the menstrual cycle, hygiene, and sexual activity. As long as there is no strong, unpleasant odor or itchiness, there is no cause for concern.
6. Hair
Pubic hair is another common and sometimes ‘weird’ thing about the vagina. However, it is completely normal and serves a purpose in protecting the vagina from bacteria and friction. Women have different amounts and patterns of pubic hair, and there is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way for it to look.
7. G-spot
The G-spot is a highly debated and often misunderstood erogenous zone located within the vagina. While some women report experiencing intense pleasure from stimulation of this area, others may not feel anything at all. The presence or absence of a G-spot is completely normal and does not affect sexual pleasure or satisfaction.
8. Bleeding after sex
It is not uncommon for women to experience light spotting or bleeding after sexual intercourse, especially if it is their first time or they are not fully aroused. This is due to the stretching and friction of the vaginal walls, and is not a cause for concern unless it is accompanied by pain or other symptoms.
9. Pelvic floor muscles
The vagina is surrounded by a group of muscles known as the pelvic floor. These muscles play an important role in supporting the pelvic organs and controlling bladder and bowel function. However, it is not uncommon for these muscles to become weakened or damaged, leading to conditions such as urinary incontinence or pelvic organ prolapse. It is important to do exercises such as Kegels to keep these muscles strong and healthy.
10. Vaginal orgasms
The concept of a ‘vaginal orgasm’ is often portrayed as the ultimate goal of sexual pleasure, but the truth is that all orgasms are valid and can be achieved in different ways. The clitoris, not the vagina, is the most sensitive and pleasure-inducing part of the female genitalia. However, some women do report experiencing intense orgasms from vaginal stimulation alone. It is important to remember that every woman’s body and sexual response is unique and there is no right or wrong way to experience pleasure.
In conclusion, the vagina is a complex and amazing part of the female body, and there are many ‘weird’ things about it that are actually completely normal. It is important for women to educate themselves about their own bodies and not be ashamed or embarrassed by these natural and healthy characteristics. If you have any concerns about your vaginal health, it is always best to consult with a healthcare provider for personalized advice and guidance.
