Sensation play is a form of BDSM that involves the stimulation of senses by various objects or techniques, creating a whole palette of intense sensations on the body. It may also be fun and creative in the process of discovering new sensations and enhancing sexual pleasure. With so many products in the market, it is downright overwhelming to know which ones to try. That is why we consulted with sex educators to bring to you a list of 5 sensation play products that you should try.
1. Blindfolds
Blindfolds are a classic and versatile tool for sensation play. They work by temporarily depriving the sense of sight, which in turn heightens the other senses and creates a heightened state of awareness. Sex educator and author of “The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy,” Violet Blue, recommends using a silk blindfold for its softness and ability to block out light without being too restrictive. The softness of silk also adds an element of luxury and sensuality to the experience. When choosing a blindfold, it is important to ensure that it fits comfortably and securely to avoid any discomfort or interruptions during play. A blindfold that is too tight may cause discomfort, while one that is too loose may slip off during use.
Blindfolds can be used in a variety of ways to enhance sensation play. For example, they can be used to heighten the anticipation and excitement of a surprise by preventing the wearer from seeing what is coming next. Blindfolds can also be used to focus the wearer’s attention on specific sensations, such as the touch of a partner’s hand or the sound of their voice. This can create a more intense and immersive experience, allowing the wearer to fully engage with their senses and their partner.
2. Feather Ticklers
Feather ticklers are another popular sensation play product. They are light and gentle, and can be used to create a delicate and teasing sensation on the skin. Sex educator and author of “The Big Book of Kink,” Jay Wiseman, notes that feathers are a great choice for sensation play because they are so light and gentle, and can be used to stimulate the whole body. Feather ticklers can be used to lightly trace over sensitive areas like the neck, nipples, and inner thighs, or to explore less sensitive areas for a surprising sensation.
Feather ticklers are available in multiple designs and dimensions, and can be manufactured using an array of materials such as feathers, fur, and other supple substances. In the process of selecting a feather tickler, it is crucial to take into account the individual preferences of the intended user. Certain individuals might find that feathers are excessively ticklish and may instead prefer a tickler made of a gentler material. Conversely, there are others who might opt for a tickler with longer feathers for a more heightened sensory experience.
3. Wartenberg Pinwheels
Wartenberg pinwheels are small, spiky wheels that roll over the skin, creating a prickling sensation. They are a popular tool in sensation play as they can produce a range of sensations depending on the pressure applied and the part of the body it’s used on. ‘Pinwheels can be used to create a light and ticklish sensation or a more intense and painful sensation, depending on how they are used,’ says sex educator and founder of Sex Positive Academy, Amy Baldwin.
4. Ice Cubes
Ice cubes are a simple and affordable way to incorporate temperature play into your sensation play. The contrast of the cold ice against the warmth of the skin can create a thrilling sensation. You can run an ice cube over the body or hold it in your mouth and use your breath to warm it up before placing it on the skin. ‘Temperature play is all about contrast, so try alternating between warm and cold sensations to keep things interesting,’ suggests Blue.
5. Sensation Play Kits
If you’re new to sensation play, a kit is a great way to try out different products and find what works for you. Sex educator and author of ‘The New Rules of Sex’ Dr. Emily Morse recommends the Kama Sutra Intensifying Sensations kit, which includes a blindfold, feather tickler, and warming and cooling gels. ‘This kit has everything you need to explore different sensations and find your favorites,’ says Dr. Morse.
When incorporating sensation play into your sex life, it’s important to communicate with your partner and establish boundaries and safe words beforehand. It’s also crucial to go slowly and check in with each other to make sure everyone is comfortable and enjoying the experience.
Sensation play: very exciting, often wonderful ways to put some sparkle in your sex life while discovering new sensations. From complete newbie to advanced player, here are five products to get you started—especially for people experienced in sex education. Always remember to keep communication and consent at the top of the agenda so everyone stays safe, having a good time.
