Everybody has got a set of expectations and fantasies about sex. But of course, men and women both have different things they find pleasure in and here we have compiled for you a list of women’s top 5 sexual fantasies.
- Being the dominant one in a sexual relation
Most of the time, women play the role of someone submissive in a sexual relationship. Heck, we are even accustomed to this notion already.
Perhaps it is culture; perhaps it is sheer oppression; but whatever the case may be, some women fantasise about being the one with a dominant role in sex.
Of course, many women are happy to play a submissive role most of the time (after all, most women find strong-willed men very attractive) but even those women fantasise about this from time to time.
The flip of the power balance is thrilling to think about and usually, women can fantasise about this when thinking about a man who appears docile.
Well, fantasies are just fantasies and not all women actually want to dominate men overall. Their fantasies just really depend on who they are fantasising about. But asking about it may not hurt!
- Having sex with two men
This fantasy is probably kept secret by women for the most part. But thanks to the exposure of porn (and even some movies) even women can fantasise about being in the middle of two men.
The idea of being so desirable and wanted by more than one man is very sexy and self-affirming, so some women may fantasise about this from time to time.
As survey published by Men’s Health, revealed that 87% of participants admitted to fantasizing about scenarios like threesomes, group sex, and gangbangs. Interestingly, women were found to commonly fantasize about having sex with two men. The idea of being simultaneously desirable to multiple partners at once can be incredibly thrilling and exciting for many individuals.
The notion of taboo in an unfaithful relationship can also make the fantasy all the more enthralling. Also, the fact that they get to be pleased doubly good whilst not having to do too much to please the two men may make them feel powerful as well.
Of course, this is just a fantasy and doesn’t necessarily hint at unfaithfulness in a romantic relationship. Sometimes people just want to imagine being bad because in real life they are really decent people.
- Being submissive and forced into sex
On the other end of women’s sexual fantasies lies submission. Some women like to fantasise about having more power, but even those women may even fantasise about being totally helpless and forced into a sexual relationship.
Again, this is all just fantasy and playing out roles in one’s head is pretty safe and sexy. This doesn’t actually mean that women secretly want to be raped as this type of fantasy is often called ‘rape fantasy’.
The bottom line of this submission is just psychological play in which strong-willed women just want to meet someone stronger than them who can control them into submission.
As per the research reported by Health Place, rough sex is characterized by aggressive, animalistic, and potentially violent sexual acts. It is often portrayed as more passionate than other forms of sex, but it can also be linked to unhealthy and abusive behavior. However, it’s important to note that in some cases, rough sex may be a consensual fantasy when both partners are attracted to each other.
The idea that a really attractive man can make a woman succumb to his will is just fun and sexy in the woman’s mind, and they do enjoy this from time to time.
The key takeaway is that this fantasy is only sexy when involving a man the woman is attracted to.
- Sex with their favourite hot celebrity
A common sexual fantasy for both men and women is imagining having sex with a really hot celeb. Everybody does this and there is no harm in this; after all, it is just fantasy and for the most part, it is never going to happen.
Meanwhile, fantasising about having sex with a favourite celeb can also increase sexual satisfaction. At the same time, the fantasy can make women even more desiring to have sex with their official partners.
So, it really would not hurt. Some celebs that we know of are indeed a rare breed of human beings who seem to have it all: great body, charisma, magnetic sex appeal, and they simply know how to portray a sexy character doing hot stuff.
There is no harm in learning a thing or two from our favourite celebs as well as that may just get us to become more creative in the bedroom.
- Sex with their boss at the workplace
Yes, we think this is pretty common as well. The workplace tends to be seen as a professional space where everyone is expected to be decent and keep to doing the right things.
For that reason, sex at the workplace with a colleague or a boss becomes really racy in the minds of many people. The sexual tension between co-workers can also ignite such fantasies that may or may not become reality.
Sometimes, even issues with someone at the workplace can induce sexual fantasies because women feel like they want to overpower the person who causes them emotional turmoil.
According to the survey published in Women’s Health, an intriguing finding indicates that four out of five women admit to daydreaming about having sex with a colleague. The survey brings attention to the fact that some women experience such erotic dreams with surprising frequency, even as often as every hour.
With that said, some women actually fantasise about having sex with their boss. This can happen whether or not they actually like the boss; it’s a pretty case by case scenario, too.
But this particular sexual fantasy is also quite common amongst professionals and working women.
To tie it all together, people should not be embarrassed to talk about sexual fantasies as they must talk about them openly to raise awareness. Talking about their sexual fantasies can help women feel empowered and satisfied.
What Are Some Of The Sexual Fantasies Women Dream About?
Sexual fantasies are an integral part of a person’s sexual desires and imagination. They can range from mild and romantic to wild and kinky, and are often a reflection of one’s deepest desires and fantasies. While sexual fantasies are commonly associated with men, women also have their fair share of sexual fantasies.
Contrary to popular belief, women have just as active and vivid imaginations when it comes to sexual fantasies. In fact, studies have shown that women have a higher number of sexual fantasies compared to men. However, due to societal expectations and stereotypes, women are often discouraged from openly expressing their sexual desires and fantasies.
So, what are some of the sexual fantasies that women dream about? Let’s explore some of the common themes and scenarios that women often fantasize about.
1. Dominance and Submission: Many women have a secret desire to be dominated and controlled by their partner in the bedroom. This can include scenarios such as being tied up, blindfolded, or restrained during sexual activities. The feeling of being completely at the mercy of their partner can be a huge turn-on for many women.
On the other hand, some women also fantasize about being the dominant one in the bedroom. They may imagine taking control and being in charge, giving orders and being in control of their partner’s pleasure.
2. Role-playing: Dressing up in costumes and playing different roles can be a fun and exciting way to spice up the bedroom. Many women fantasize about role-playing scenarios such as a boss and secretary, teacher and student, or even doctor and patient. This allows them to explore different power dynamics and indulge in their sexual desires without any inhibitions.
3. Same-sex Encounters: While not all women may identify as bisexual or lesbian, many have fantasies about having sexual encounters with another woman. This may be due to the curiosity and excitement of exploring their own bodies and desires, or it could simply be a manifestation of their attraction to the female form.
4. Exhibitionism and Voyeurism: The thrill of being watched or watching others engage in sexual activities can be a major turn-on for many women. This can involve scenarios such as having sex in a public place or being watched by a partner while pleasuring oneself. The idea of being watched or being completely uninhibited in front of others can be a huge fantasy for women.
5. Threesomes and Group Sex: Many women have fantasies about having sex with multiple partners at the same time. This can include threesomes with another woman and a man, or even group sex with multiple partners of the same or different genders. The idea of being desired and pleasured by multiple partners can be a major turn-on for women.
6. Sensory Deprivation: Depriving oneself of one or more senses, such as sight or touch, can heighten sensations and lead to a more intense sexual experience. Some women fantasize about being blindfolded or using earplugs during sex to focus solely on the physical sensations and pleasure.
7. Outdoor Sex: The thrill of being caught or the excitement of doing something taboo can make outdoor sex a major fantasy for many women. This can include having sex in a car, on a beach, or in a park. The risk and spontaneity of outdoor sex can add a new level of excitement and arousal for women.
8. Erotic Massage: Many women fantasize about receiving a sensual and erotic massage from their partner. The idea of being touched, caressed, and pleasured in a slow and sensual manner can be a major turn-on for women.
9. Taboo Fantasies: Women, just like men, can have taboo sexual fantasies that they may be hesitant to share with their partner or act upon in real life. This can include fantasies about having sex with a stranger, a family member, or even a celebrity. These fantasies may be a way for women to explore their desires without any real-life consequences.
10. Emotional Connection: While physical pleasure is an important aspect of sexual fantasies, some women also fantasize about having a strong emotional connection with their partner. This can include scenarios such as making love in a romantic setting or being swept off their feet by a partner who understands and fulfills their emotional needs.
In conclusion, women have a wide range of sexual fantasies, and they are just as valid and important as men’s fantasies. These fantasies provide a safe and private space for women to explore their desires and fantasies without any judgment. It is important for partners to communicate and understand each other’s fantasies to enhance their sexual experiences and strengthen their relationship.
